investing many years in studies, diligent hard work and creative thinking, you
are expected to achieve at least some of your goals and dreams in life. At
times, after toiling and engaging in serious brainstorming it appears the more you
chase the goals and dreams the farther they move away from you. This can get
you discouraged, distressed and frustrated. You might become sad wondering if
you could ever make it, asking if you could ever achieve your goals, dreams and
Are you now so down and relenting? In this state of mind your dream cars, houses, job, lifestyles, quality living and everything you wanted will only move farther away. This can leave you angry and bitter. You might begin to look for just anybody to blame or anything to hold responsible.
Gradually, you become frustrated and irritable, full of complains, venting your frustrations on everyone around you. Hence, you begin to radiate negative energy because you are not a happy person. Carrying on this way will not improve your situation and give you that exciting and fulfilling future.
If you tried and fail, the worst thing you can do is to look for what and whom to blame. It is wise to look at your processes, capacity, ideology and believe system. Trying to plan your goals, yearnings and aspirations based on chance or favor is highly defective, why not do things as though it all depends on you in order to avoid any reason for failure.
Stop lamenting on many failed efforts and people who disappointed you. Stop making yourself unattractive because of the disappointment and resentment. Rise above negativity and fault finding. Begin to think and act like a champion. Rekindle your hope, stay focus on your vision and make it happen.